January 23, 2015

Dear Frannie Friday--Adventures in Retail

 
January is the time of year when returns are made from the holidays.  The allotted extended return policy for most stores is about to come to a close (January 25, usually).  Now I spent four miserable years of my life working retail and so I feel obligated to give you a couple of pieces of advice.

1.  Do Your Homework

Do you know where this person got this unwanted item?  Are you able to get a receipt for it?  Do you know the store's return policy?  Most stores realize that people who are returning gifts won't have a receipt.  That's fair.  But here's the thing--without a receipt you have to realize that you will be limited in what help you can receive.  You may only be able to get store credit.  The store you thought the item was from might not carry the item.  Maybe it was an online purchase.  And without a receipt you can't prove that that particular store owes you anything.  Not to mention, it is a typical store policy to refund the lowest price of that item within thirty days to you.  So even though it is currently worth, say, $50, it might have been on sale during the last thirty days for $30.  You will end up with $30, probably in store credit. 


2.  A Little Kindness Can Go a Long Way

When I worked retail, I was more apt to help those that were nice to me.  And I am pretty sure that is universal.  It's true--you do attract more bees with honey than vinegar.  If you walk up to the counter in asshole mode--prepare to get the bareboned, fine print, by the rule, yes or no customer service around.  Basically you will get helped just enough for the employee to not get fired.  And no, it won't help to pledge that you will never return to said store.  Or that your brother knows the CEO.  No one cares.  Be nice and I guarantee that employee will do everything that they can to help you out.  Even if you are firm, but nice.  It goes a long way.  Trust.


3.  Rules Are A Pain

Yes, it's true.  Those little fine print rules and regulations are a pain in the ass, but there is a reason for them.  And it's not just to piss you off and ruin your day.  It's because there are people who ruin it for everyone--just like anything else.  For example, maybe there was a customer that will come in with a seemingly untouched box for a computer monitor and a receipt saying that they paid for the monitor and wanting a refund and choosing the pregnant lady behind the counter to refund it to him because you know she won't be able to lift it up and maybe she won't think anything of it and it will be realized after she has given the customer cash and he has left that the box was actually sans monitor and filled with cans of soup and the customer just left with $350 cash.  Maybe.  And that might have seriously happened to me. 


4.  Opened Merch

Keep this in mind:  if you open something, the chances that you can just return it are much slimmer.  Sometimes you can.  Sometimes you only can return it with a receipt.  Sometimes you can only exchange it.  Sometimes (I"m thinking electronics), you are liable for a restocking fee.  Just know that once you open something you may or may not be stuck with it.


5.  Timeframe

Please don't put off returning or exchanging a holiday gift.  In other words, if you try to bring something back in June that you got for Christmas, it probably won't work.  Just sayin. 

Red Dress-Old Navy; Black Leather Jacket-Target; Belt-Kohl's; Tights-Target; Booties-Ralph Lauren, gifted; Earrings-Charming Charlie's; Necklace-K-Mart

January 22, 2015

Thursday Mixer--Polka Dot Blazer

I just got this blazer in mid-2013.  Honestly, I thought I would wear it more than I do.  This was something that I call a "blogger only must have."  Meaning--in the blog world, it seems that everyone had a polka dot blazer and I needed one even though IRL I hadn't seen anyone actually wear one.

But I got it for $15 and I've worn it a documented 5 times making the cost per wear $3.  And I want to wear it more.  I guess I'll make that a goal.  Note to self--wear polka dot blazer more.

1, 2, 3, 4, Now

So I posted this on Instagram (you should probably follow me cause I'm cool like that), but yesterday was just oneofthosedays.  Seriously, I was done.  I was done with chores and with work and with kid stuff.  Reilly finally cut a tooth and hasn't been sleeping so adding exhaustion to the mix didn't help.

On the phone with Patrick I was super bitchy.  He hadn't done anything wrong but it was one of those things where he was on my shitlist--pretty much for just existing at that moment.  Not his fault.  And he knew it.  But he obviously knew that I was annoyed (yeah, that's a nice way to put it).

So he walks in the door and I had just sat down without purpose for the first time that day--around 6:00 p.m.--and he asks me to come and help him with something.  Annoyed, I let out a loud sigh and sauntered over like an overtired toddler to find him holding a half a dozen roses.  Just to brighten my day.  And it did.  

And speaking of brightening your day, don't forget that tomorrow is the last day to enter the giveaway for that adorable little elephant pin.  I will be announcing the winner on Monday.  Good luck!

Red Jeans-thrifted; Black Blouse-Kohl's; Polka Dot Blazer-Forever 21; Black Heels-thrifted; Necklace-gifted; Earrings-DIY and gifted

January 21, 2015

Wordy Wednesday--Addiction

I'm not going to go into details right now, but I have dealt with addictions my entire life.  I have been smoke-free for about a year and a half now with no plans or desire to ever go back.  My addictive personality can also be seen in some shopping habits I have as well.  But I have dealt with a lot of other, even more painful addictions with drugs and alcohol in parts of my life--through family and through friends (which is probably why I don't drink, like ever).  It really and truly is an infectious disease that affects not only the addict, but those who love them also.  So we will keep this Wordy Wednesday fairly vague and wordless and offer some quotes for others that may be dealing with this pain as well.



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Black Skinny Jeans-Old Navy (maternity); Sweater-J. Crew, thrifted; Faux Fur Vest-Marshall's; Booties-Forever 21; Earrings-gifted; Glasses-Bebe

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